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GEORGIA CIVIL MONETARY PENALTY FUNDS (CMPs) ARE ON THE TABLE AT THE GEORGIA STATE CAPITOL

By:  Kim McRae

Aging Services of Georgia, along with other groups, organizations and individuals throughout the state, has supported an effort to appropriate “Civil Monetary Penalty” funds (CMPs) to programs supporting Culture Change. By federal law these CMP dollars, which were collected as fines on nursing homes, must be spent to benefit residents of nursing homes.  Due to the “hole” in the FY ’10 budget, legislators are reluctant to fund any new programs, and the Senate version of the budget appropriates all of the CMP funds (an amount of more than $10 million) in an attempt to adhere to federal law yet still be used to address the budget deficit.  The House version appropriates $1 million to the long term care ombudsman program and $600,000 to Adult Protective Services.  The differences will have to be worked out by a conference committee when the General Assembly re-convenes on March 8.

 

Background: In 1986, Congress passed the Nursing Home Reform Act (OBRA) which allowed the government to issue sanctions against nursing homes that failed to comply with federal Medicare and Medicaid quality of care requirements. Civil money penalties (CMPs) are one type of sanction. The federal Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services (CMS) contracts with the Georgia Department of Community Health (DCH) to inspect nursing homes on a regular basis and to issue CMPs for failure to comply with federal statute.

 

CMP funds collected are held in an account (for violations of state statute and regulations) to be used for various initiatives allowed by CMS. CMS issued guidance to states encouraging the use of federal CMP funds for innovative projects that improve the quality of care and quality of life for nursing home residents. Specifically, CMS stated, “Because CMP funds collected by a state are state funds, the state may use the money for any project that directly benefits facility residents.”

 

Civil Monetary Penalties: An Opportunity promoted by CMS for Funding Innovation in Nursing Home Care

 

Many states are using the fines collected as a result of nursing home violations to fund projects to improve the quality of life and quality of care of nursing home residents. In those states, nursing home advisory committees provide consultation to state regulatory agencies on the expenditure of Civil Money Penalty (CMP) funds and make recommendations for funding of innovative projects. In addition to efforts to improve the quality of clinical care (such as the reduction of pressure ulcers and the use of restraints), states are also encouraging person directed care, promoting consumer and resident advocacy, developing family and community involvement, and supporting culture change initiatives.

 

Alternative models of care have emerged in response to the growing realization that there is a better way to provide care for our nation’s elders in nursing homes. Sometimes referred to as “person centered care,” “resident directed care” or “culture change;” the focus is on empowering residents to direct their own care and caregivers to act creatively in responding to the needs of residents. CMP

funds are a potentially powerful source for supporting innovation that improves conditions for everyone who resides or works in a nursing home.

 

See the August 8, 2002 memo from CMS: Use of Civil Monetary (CMP) Funds by States Memorandum, which discusses "Appropriate CMP Fund Use" including culture change efforts.  See the June 19, 2009 memo from CMS: Use of Civil Money Penalty (CMP) Funds by States and Reporting of CMP Funds Returned to the State, clarifying how CMPs may be directed and used by States, and sharing suggestions of innovative projects and activities that have already been undertaken with CMP funds in some States.

 

In the 2009 memo, CMS reiterated that “statutory intent is clear that they (CMP funds) should be used for activities that will benefit facility residents.” The 2009 memo stated that inappropriate uses of funds are (anything) that is “not related to improving the quality of life and care of nursing home residents.” Culture Change initiatives are one of the examples of accepted ways to use the funds. “Culture

Change” is the name of the national movement to transform the way care and services are provided to older adults, mostly in nursing home settings.


Funding for Innovation: A Review of State Practices with Civil Monetary Penalties, is a report funded by The Commonwealth Fund.  In it you will find The Long Term Care Community Coalition's summary of findings from a 2006 study of states' use of CMP funds with recommendations for state and federal governments and strategies for stakeholders.  It recommends the use of federal CMP funds for innovation, and strongly advocates for public disclosure of the use of these funds. The report also provides examples of special projects funded in other states:

*        Support for the Long Term Care Ombudsman Program

*        Culture change initiatives

*        Initiatives that support recruitment and retention of nursing assistants

*        Promotion of resident and family councils and other types of consumer advocacy

*        Alzheimer’s and dementia care training

*        Research to identify the extent of mental illness among residents and to make recommendations regarding staff training

*        Training workshops for facilities on restraints, pain and pressure ulcers

*        Also included will be training tied to the goals of the national Advancing Excellence in Nursing Homes campaign including consistent assignment,       reducing turnover, resident/family satisfaction and employee satisfaction.

 

In terms of what is going to happen here in Georgia, We Will See

Georgia is Participating in Pioneer Network Pilot Project to Reach Consumers
A Good Age: Making Nursing Homes More Like Home

The Pioneer Network, an umbrella group in Rochester, N.Y., and the Picker Institute in Camden, Maine, are gathering elder advocates in Massachusetts, Georgia and Florida to talk about how elders can have a stronger voice and more choice in services.  Focus groups talk about how services can cater more to what an older person wants.
This includes respecting the residents’ wishes on schedules for getting up in the morning, having meals, showering, and going to bed at night. More

Front Line Staff Could Benefit from Affordable Homeownership through the Habitat for Humanity program

You can be the link by connecting your staff members with the Habitat for Humanity affiliate in your area and providing valuable information.  The benefits to your organization could be many…better staff retention when employees are homeowners, thus adding value to their job, a more financially stable staff, and staff possibly living closer to work, cutting commute time and cost.  You provide the mentoring contact for your staff.  They will know that you care about the quality of their housing, too.

By the way, there are more than 70 Habitat for Humanity affiliates across Georgia.  Connect your staff with a local affiliate to see if they qualify to buy a home through the program.  Visit the Habitat for Humanity International Web site to find the affiliate in your area: More information

All Georgia Nursing Homes to Receive “Be With Me Today” DVD by Richard Taylor, PhD

The Culture Change Network of Georgia received a grant from Healthcare Research, Inc. to provide this significant resource to every nursing home in Georgia.  Shipping will begin in May. For a preview of the DVD click here.

Webinar Series NOW Available

Click here for Culture Change Webinars held recently entitled Setting the Stage for Culture Change: Preparing for our Aging Population

 

CULTURE CHANGE NEWS & EVENTS

Early Bird Registration
Pioneer Network's 10th National Conference
Meeting at the Crossroads - August 9-11 in Indianapolis, Indiana.

Pioneer Network's highly anticipated national conference is the nation's largest and most successful conference of its kind. The three-day conference is a showcase for innovative thought and transformative practices in the long-term care culture change movement — as well as an opportunity to facilitate communication among people interested in propelling this important work.

Pioneer Network hosts the only national conference devoted solely to culture change and features pre-conference intensives, inspirational plenary speakers, 50+ group sessions and special events. Now preparing for its tenth year, the Pioneer Network conference has been attended by more than ten thousand culture change advocates from around the nation, Canada and other parts of the world – many of whom return annually.  Registration opens in the early spring, and an early bird discount is offered. Sign up for our email list to receive all the latest conference news, and to take advantage of special offers.  http://www.pioneernetwork.net/Events/2010Conference/

Georgia, Be Sure to Check Out the Conference Intensives on Monday, August 9th

(INT-1) Getting Started:  Mapping the Course of Culture Change
(INT-5) How Can We Radically Transform Activities in Long Term Care?
(INT-7) Beyond Care:  Exploring the Glorious Adventure of the Spirit
(INT-10) Get On The Bus For Change:  Culture Change Within Adult Day Services
(INT-8) The Role of the Nurse in a Person-Directed Culture
(INT-12) Eliminating Restraints including Alarms by Engaging the Whole
(INT-13) The Long-Term Care Improvement Guide: Practical Guidance for Culture Change Through the Eyes of Residents, Staff and Leaders
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Scholarships

A limited number of partial & full scholarships are available. Download the application.

The Food and Dining Side of the Culture Change Movement February Dining Symposium Canceled: Online Programming and Plan B Announced

As many of you know, the much-anticipated Creating Home in the Nursing Home II: A National Symposium on Culture Change and the Food and Dining Requirements, sponsored by Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services (CMS) and Pioneer Network, was canceled due to devastating snow storms that hit the Mid-Atlantic region on February 11 and 12.

As promised, we are providing you with an update on how we plan to proceed given this unavoidable turn of events. We hope you will agree that "Plan B" provides a very timely and accessible alternative. While the dates that the information and web program will be available cannot yet be confirmed, we want to share the details we have so far and the approach that has been developed.  Learn More

Background Paper Available Now

Prepared by Carmen Bowman, MHS under contract with the Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services (CMS), The Food and Dining Side of the Culture Change Movement: Identifying Barriers and Potential Solutions to Furthering Innovation in Nursing Homes is intended to provide the history of the culture change movement as it pertains to food and dining, including current research regarding food and dining issues and innovations.
"The issues surrounding new and innovative ways of serving food in the nursing home as you weave in and out of regulatory requirements. Thus, both the issues as well as the regulations are presented here together intertwined with what is missing. Carmen offers recommendations for what might be helpful on your journey to Culture Change." --Carmen Bowman, Author
Click here to download the background paper.

Creating Home--Access to Nature Webinar Series

Did You Miss the First Two Webinars? Register for the Final Webinar Two!

Pioneer Network is proud to offer a three-part webinar series that investigates outdoor environmental design and green spaces to benefit older adults. The webinars will take place on three Tuesdays in March -- the 2nd, 9th and 16th from 1:00pm to 2:00 p.m. EST.

 

CULTURE CHANGE THROUGHOUT THE CONTINUUM OF LIFE-LONG LIVING & LONG-TERM CARE

Developing Partnerships, Collaborations, and Networks to Advance Culture Change in Long-term Care

(Source: Pioneer Network)

Pioneer Network is a national resource to the field of aging and long-term care, a clearinghouse for ideas, and a facilitator of partnerships focusing on issues of culture change and person-centered transformations throughout the continuum of care. Pioneer Network began in 1997 when a small panel of prominent professionals came together to advocate for person-centered care. Since that time, Pioneer Network has continued to serve as the umbrella organization and communication conduit to collect and share adaptable practices and procedures that put person before task and create communication, networking and learning opportunities. As the center for thought leaders and innovators in the field of aging, Pioneer Network is a catalyst and diffuser of person-centered innovation with a strong focus on developing evidence-based and
adaptable approaches that are cost effective.

After a decade of persistent determination and grassroots advocacy, the movement for person-centered care is taking hold. At this juncture, Pioneer Network is collaborating and networking with stakeholders at all levels of the long-term care community including policymakers, consumers, researchers, educators, providers, and partner organizations By sharing our knowledge, we accelerate adoption, diffusion and dissemination of person-centered concepts and help to create a more cost effective and responsive long-term care system that addresses societal, fiscal and market concerns.

“Culture change” is an innovation anchored in values and beliefs that return the locus of control to elders and those who work closest with them. Its ultimate vision is to create a culture of aging that is inclusive, life-affirming, satisfying, humane, and meaningful. In the culture change journey, person-centered care most resembles the kind of care and caring most consumers desire. Long-term care environments become places where elders can continue to live and, most importantly, make their own choices and have control over their daily lives. The transformation accompanying culture change requires changes in organizationpractices, physical environments, workplace practices, and relationships. While many specific approaches have been developed, the core values that unite them are choice, dignity, respect, and self-determination. These values are reflected in key aspects of the care setting as well as in the philosophy and practices of leaders and caregivers.  More

Focus Is On Individuals and Quality of Life

(Source: AARP Bulletin)

They aren't diseases, but the word that is used to describe them -- plagues -- is certainly morose.  Those in the long-term care business say boredom, helplessness and loneliness are the three plagues that account for most of the suffering among the elderly.
There has been a national movement that has been going on for about 20 years that's goal is to try to deinstitutionalize medical settings and promote patient-centered care. The name given to the movement is "culture change."
"It is all about the patient and their needs," said Gwynn Powell, director of home health services for Palms Home Care in Sebring. "We are the provider for the customer; they are the customer.  "It's a whole different realm of thinking," she added…  More

Leaders Need to be Visible

(Source: Long-Term Living)

Effective leaders never ask someone to do something that they are unwilling to do themselves.

Leaders at all levels of an organization need to be available, approachable, and visible. If leaders spend all of their time in their offices, how can they know what the employees need or the quality of care they provide? Effective leaders make time and actually schedule time to walk throughout the facility, engaging with staff, residents, and families. It is not about the need to “check on employees,” but rather a genuine desire to interact with the staff and residents in order to determine that both are receiving the care and attention that they deserve. More

The Washington Post Reports on Growing Popularity of Village Model

(Source: Aging In Action)

The Village model for community-dwelling older adults has become quite popular in America’s capital. The Washington Post reports that there are at least six in the District of Columbia alone, and at least 10 others are at various stages of development in the metropolitan area. The Post article also cites three basic models that can serve as good starting points for other communities wishing to replicate them.
The Village model is less of a cookie-cutter approach to aging-in-place than it is a shared spirit of empowerment for older adults to live independently in the community late into life. Each village is very different, with tailored services and programming structures. 
For more information,

 

NURSING HOMES

Young Nursing Home Residents: Person-Centered Culture Change Must Include Them

As quiet as it’s kept, young residents are often found in nursing homes. They are a growing population that many overlook when they think of nursing homes as “old people’s homes.” In many ways, traditional nursing homes are not designed with needs of young residents in mind.

The first young resident I came to know while I was hospice volunteering was a young woman named Velma…  But there was a sadness about these young people and some others I have seen in nursing homes…
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Grants Offered for Nursing Homes in Colorado

(Source: The Colorado Springs Business Journal)

Fines collected from Colorado skilled nursing facilities failing to meet state inspection standards will be used for projects designed to improve quality of life for skilled nursing residents as well as overall quality of care. The Colorado Nursing Facility Culture Change Accountability Board (CNFCC) is currently taking applications for grant funding. The proposed projects must have long-term beneficial effects on resident quality of life, and should be the type of project that can be replicated in other facilities. More

LGBT Nursing Home to Open in Massachusetts

(Source: 365gay.com)

The Elsie Frank House at the Leonard Florence Center for Living - a nursing home aimed at lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender seniors - will open in Massachusetts this month. More

 

ASSISTED LIVING

(Source: ChangingAging.org by Dr. Bill Thomas)

The popular misconception is that the only “problems” within aging services are related to nursing homes. This falsehood reminds me of the ancient royal concept of the “whipping boy.” It is as all of the sins and defects of the system can be loaded onto nursing home so that all other parts of the system can be exonerated.  Here is a rare commercial television of report on problems with quality in Assisted Living facilities.  More

 

ADULT DAY

Institute on Aging Study: Adult Day Health Care Improves Senior Participants’ Quality of Life

(Source: cts.businsesswire.com)

A recent study by San Francisco’s Institute on Aging: (IOA) documents that adult day health programs play a vital role in helping senior participants maintain their health and independence. Since the 1970s, adult day health care has been promoted as an alternative to nursing home care for seniors with chronic illness, disability, or dementia. There are currently 4,600 adult day health centers operating in the United States, but little scientific research demonstrating their impact on the health of senior participants.  More

 

HCBS (HOME & COMMUNITY BASED SERVICES)

Factors That Ensure Successful Aging-in-Place Services

(Source: Aging In Action)

Home and Community Based Services (HCBS) offer support to older adults who wish to grow old in their own homes, and previous research has shown they can help prevent nursing home usage; however, very little is known about what mechanisms make the programs succeed or fail. University of Washington researchers tried to delineate the factors that help ensure their success. Using data from the Second Longitudinal Study of Aging, they surveyed about 5,294 older adults to conduct Structural Equation Modeling in an effort to pinpoint factors that predict whether an older adult is able to stay in his/her home or not.
After comparing the impact of HCBS services on the older adults’ ability to stay in the home, the researchers found that participating in paid services for instrumental activities of daily living (IADL) and having a high awareness of what the typical unmet needs are for older adults helped research participants stay in their homes longer than others.  More

 

END-OF-LIFE & HOSPICE

Marking Our Journey: The Importance of Ceremony During Life Stages and Beyond

(Source: Carol Bradley Bursack in ouralzheimer’s.com)

Birth, graduations, marriage, anniversaries, death - important moments in our lives are often celebrated by some type of ceremony. In our middle to late years, we are often encouraged to plan the type of funeral we'd like, even pre-paying so our loved ones won't have to juggle business and grief.  Everyone has different ideas about when a ceremony is appropriate, however I've learned about a new ceremony that I find very appealing.  It's the "Walking You Home" program and it offers a dignified touch and family support immediately after the death of a loved one…
"Walking You Home" is a way for staff, residents and family to show their respect for the deceased by accompanying the deceased's body from their room to a waiting funeral coach. There's a touching dignity about this program that I think I would have found comforting. 
When people live in a care center for a long time, residents get to know one another. When someone dies, they - well, they just disappear. As a friend said, they seem to kind of slip away in the middle of the night. Or, as I often witnessed, residents who noticed the funeral home's cart being rolled up to  the elevator will mumble, "well, someone is dying again," and look away. More

 

THE ELDERS (The People With & For Whom We're Doing) & THE STAFF (The People Doing the Doint)

Women's Friendship Reaches Beyond Barriers

(Source: Fayetteville Observer)

Contributed photo Gladys Ingram, left, and Grace Pillsbury became friends when Ingram worked at an assisted-living care facility where Pillsbury lived.

Gladys Ingram, with a full-time job as a correction officer and a funeral service to attend at her church, was facing a busy day Thursday.  But she seated herself on the edge of one of the twin beds in the last room on the left at Willow Place Assisted Living Facility and settled in for some conversation.  Sitting next to her, in a warm robe and a wheelchair, was her good friend Grace Pillsbury.  No matter how busy life gets, Ingram always makes time to visit Pillsbury.

"At least three or four times a week,'' Ingram said.

Theirs is an unusual relationship.

Gladys Ingram is a middle-aged black woman.

Grace Pillsbury, who makes no bones about her age, is white.

"I'm 85,'' she said. "I'll be 86 in June.''  More

Profile of a Person at the Center of Person-Centered Care

(Source: Action Pact Newsletter, Culture Change Now)

Opportunities to give, be helpful and be responsible give meaning to the lives of elders living in long-term care. They are also essential for helping people feel part of the community and have ownership in their home. Action Pact consultant Bev Cowdrick recently talked with a resident at Masonic Home of Shelbyville, KY, and shares his story of purposeful daily life here. More

John Clinton has lived at the Masonic Home of Shelbyville for three years. I met with him recently in the newly constructed living room of his neighborhood, North Terrace.  John embodies what is best about what happens when residents get involved as true partners in creating home in a nursing home. More

Working in Households "Like Coming Home" for 67 Year Old Pearl

(Source: Action Pact Newsletter, Culture Change Now)

At age 67, Pearl Barnes doesn't need to hold a job. But she still gets up before dawn to work the early shift as a full-time homemaker in McEwen Household, the memory support unit at Pennybyrn at Maryfield Retirement Community in High Point, NC. Why? "I like being around older people, maybe because my grandma raised me. When I come to work, I talk to them, laugh with them, sometimes I cry with them. To me they're family," she explains…  Pearl says she had little difficulty adjusting to the household despite nearly a career working in the institutional model. "I had to learn, but anybody can... And once you learn, it's good...just be patient," she advises future household staff members. "It's just like a family here," she says. Going to work each day "is like coming home, and that's everything." More

 

LIVING LIFE & ACTIVITIES

The Hope of Music's Healing Powers

(Source: Los Ageles Times)

Yes, yes, it hath charms to soothe a savage breast (or beast, if you prefer to repeat a common mistake). But researchers are finding that music may be an effective balm for many other afflictions: the isolation of conditions such as autism and Alzheimer's disease, the disability that results from stroke, the physical stress of entering the world too early. More

 

DEMENTIA

Campaign Warns of Dementia Stigma: One in Three People are Uncomfortable Around People with Dementia, a Government Survey has Found

(Source: BBC NEWS)

Launching a campaign to raise awareness of living with dementia, care services minister Phil Hope said people with the condition were often stigmatised.
As part of the project, people with dementia will be educating the public about how they can best help people with the condition.
The survey of almost 1,700 adults found that 53% of people said they do not know enough about dementia to help someone who has it. More

Creative Activities for Persons with Dementia

(Source: Eden Prarie News)

Emilie was once a vibrant woman, capable wife and nurturing mother of 11 children. Her days were full – managing a large family farm house, bandaging little knees and singing with her musically talented family. When she was a schoolgirl, Emilie developed a strong sense of competition as a gymnast. Now she struggles with the effects of advanced-stage memory loss. Caregivers who work with Emilie tap into her family experiences and competitive nature to guide the administration of her care.

Some researchers believe consistent mental stimulation helps combat the loss of brain power by creating new pathways to compensate for damaged ones. Care that incorporates an individual’s interests, abilities and needs into daily activities has advantages over a strict medical model. Caregivers can more successfully engage individuals in activities that reflect their past hobbies and careers.
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Check out these films entered into the 2010 Neuro Film Festival from the American Academy of Neurology Foundation at www.neurofilmfestival.com.  Most were done by families – telling their stories in their own words… click here

 

TECHNOLOGY

Two Vincentian Nursing Homes Experiment with Robotic Pets for Alzheimer's Patients

(Source: Pittsburgh Post-Gazette)



Lake Fong/Post-Gazette
Millie Lesek, 89, pats Paro, a $6,000 furry robot at Vincentian Home in McCandless. At right is Eileen Oldaker, her daughter.

When Millie Lesek called his name, the white furry creature looked over at her. Then Paro cooed and blinked, his long lashes sweeping past his large dark eyes.

"I love you, too," she told the lifelike "therapeutic robot."  "You must be eating too much," the 89-year-old grandmother joked. "You look a little fat." As she petted him, Paro responded with a variety of sounds, ranging from a purr to a yelp…

"When the staff brings Paro to my mom and she takes him in her arms, it seems like all her fears go away," Mrs. Oldaker said.
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ATTITUDES ABOUT AGING

International Views on Aging Well

(Source: Aging In Action)

Considerable research has been done that describes how older adults perceive successful aging; however, the diverse views of older adults worldwide have never been put together in a comparative framework. Researchers from South America, the Caribbean, and Europe published results of a survey that outline the diverse views that older adults have about successful aging worldwide in seven countries in Latin America and Europe
The findings suggest that European and Latin American older adults have similar conceptions of what it means to age well. Regardless of age, country, or world region, respondents believe remaining in good health until death, being able to take care of oneself, having family and friends there for them, and feeling good about oneself are the most important aspects of successful aging. Interestingly, the least important factors in aging was living a very long time and being able to work after retirement.  More

Suicide Among Seniors Citizens Increasing

(Source: The Korea Times)

Three elderly women threw themselves to their deaths in the southern city of Daegu earlier this week…  The biggest reason for elderly suicides was illness, followed by financial difficulties, loneliness and family troubles.

"Elderly people think of their present problems as larger and more serious as they have less hope of getting better as time goes by, compared to the younger generation," an official of the Seoul Metropolitan Mental Health Center said. More

How are We Feeling Today, Dearie?

(Source: Time Goes By)

There comes a time for everyone when, in the eyes of the people around us, we have passed an invisible barrier into old age. If we have not yet realized this transition ourselves, there are plenty of younger people willing to set us straight.

A nurse may address us in the infantile plural: “And how are we today?

If shopping with a young person, the sales clerk may speak to him or her, rather than you: “Does she want the red or the blue?”

Or as happened to me during one of my final job searches before retiring, a 20-something interviewer says, “Tell me about your life goals, dearie

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Elderly Seen as 'Burden on Society'

(Source: ABC TV, Australia)

Some Australians still view older people as a burden on society. (ABC TV)

New research has found some Australians still see older people as a burden on society.  Deakin University researchers questioned 113 people about their views on the over-65s for a report commissioned by the Victorian aged care organisation Benetas.

The university's Associate Professor David Mellor says young people and baby boomers perceived older people as unproductive.

"While older people are seen as friendly and pleasant, ultimately, they're seen to be unproductive," he said.

"Now, that ties in with baby boomers talking about older people as having no ambition, or as being fragile and being a burden on society."

Professor Mellor says the research revealed a number of reasons why older people are not treated with respect.

"Things like the smaller family size, broken families, the pressure of time that affects people who are working, and the rise of technology," he said.

"All of those kind of factors were seen to be barriers to younger people giving respect or expressing respect to older people."

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FROM CAREGIVERS & CONSUMERS

Caregivers Corner: Nursing Home Staff Needs a Lesson in Caring

(Source: The Capital)

DEAR MARY: I just lost my dear husband of 65 years to Alzheimer's disease. Mary, you would hardly believe the many times I thought about you during his stay in the hospital and nursing home. I am so glad we had the experiences of the wealth of knowledge you shared through the many workshops and seminars we attended together.

During this difficult period there were many times I thought how much the staff would benefit from your depth and detail of knowledge of dementia care. I was horrified by how they handled him; like he was a piece of meat. One time two aides were moving him up in the bed and slammed his head into the headboard. No one talked to him like he had any sense at all. Even the doctor dismissed him as if he should just die.

He was capable of following directions if they took the time to tell him what to do. Instead, they just did things without warning, which frightened him. I think they could learn a lot by being in bed for a day and having someone tend to all their needs. They would discover how humiliating and degrading an experience it is.

My husband was a person and the love of my life, and I would do anything to have him with me today - even in his Alzheimer's state. He was a gentle, loving soul who would never hurt anyone. I am heartbroken over this experience.
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